I can’t believe I get to send this email


Someone pinch me.

My Enneagram: A Visual Guide to Find Your Personality Type, Stress Less, and Live Your Dreams officially drops next Tuesday on Amazon, and anywhere else books are sold!!

You can be one of the first to grab it if you preorder today.

This guided journal has been in the works for over two years. I’ve interviewed countless Enneagram types, gathering stories and wisdom to fill these pages. I wrote double the amount that actually ended up being printed, trying to distill it all into the perfect mix of Enneagram goodness, journal prompts, stories, and exercises.

It’s helpful, it’s accessible, and most importantly… it’s fun.

Which means you’ll actually do it.

(I can’t be the only one guilty of buying books that then sit on the shelf for months… or even years!!)

The journal is organized into four sections:

  1. How to find your Enneagram type (including two quizzes and a deep dive into all nine types)
  2. Tools and exercises to help you stop the stress and burnout cycle using your Enneagram type
  3. How to grow into your best self (using core weaknesses, arrows, and wings)
  4. How to love others better: practical insight into how each type feels loved, so communication improves, and relationships thrive

With SO much excitement,

Abbey

P.S. If you preorder now, you’ll be one of the first to hold it in your hands!! It launches Tuesday!!

Hi! I'm Abbey Howe, your Enneagram BFF!

A space for Enneagram nerds who want clarity, growth, and better relationships. Learn the psychology behind each type and how to apply it to your life so that it actually makes a difference. Created by author of "My Enneagram" (publishing March 2026) and creator of one of the largest Enneagram communities online, with 100k+ across platforms and 50M+ views on personality psychology content.

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