Friendly reminder from your Enneagram-obsessed friend


Hey Reader,

Quick reminder because tomorrow is launch day 🎉

My Enneagram officially comes out, which feels surreal to type right now, and I didn’t want you to miss it if you meant to grab a copy and life did its usual thing.

If you’ve ever:

  • felt confused by surface-level Enneagram content
  • wanted something practical, not woo-woo or overly academic
  • or just wished someone would explain this stuff like a normal human

This book was written with you in mind.

A playful guided journal to help you find your personality type and embark on an empowering journey of self-discovery.

You can grab your copy here before the launch chaos fully kicks in:

No pressure, just a nudge from me to you.

Happy discovering!

Abbey

P.S. If you’ve already ordered, thank you!!!!!!! This is a lifelong dream of mine, and you are making it come true 😭😭😭

Hi! I'm Abbey Howe, your Enneagram BFF!

A space for Enneagram nerds who want clarity, growth, and better relationships. Learn the psychology behind each type and how to apply it to your life so that it actually makes a difference. Created by author of "My Enneagram" (publishing March 2026) and creator of one of the largest Enneagram communities online, with 100k+ across platforms and 50M+ views on personality psychology content.

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